I forgot there was a separate Green Man quest (find 7 people to love him, get pole repaired etc) apart from the Druid promotion, & didn't end up bothering to visit the Green Man until after the clans were united & the army massacred. It is now very difficult for the Jarl to agree to place a stone celebrating the Green Man, on account of the fact that he is dead. Also, I can only find 4 or 5 people in Frosgard to promise not to forget him - the others have either been killed by the hoarde or the game makes them disappear once the hoarde appears in Frosgard.The patches fix most of these issues but I'm guessing this quest is now "un-doable"? (I guess ideally it should no longer appear as an option once the clans are united)